10 ways to keep your lady happy

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By deeders84

 Some may say it is easy to accommodate a woman, while others would say it is impossible. I say it really depends on the woman. It has been years since i was truly happy so i really couldn't write and tell the reader what makes me happy until now.So now ill discuss what makes me happy or what makes me beg for more, and maybe if your girl is as cool as me.( just playing) Then you can have her begging you for more too. Hold on tight and get your reading glasses, the class for being the ultimate man has begun!!!

1.) One thing I need my man to do is bring excitement in my life. At any moment take me on a bike ride, or grab my hand and bring me to the beach, swim all day together, laugh uncontrollably. I hate boring and I am sure your girl does too! If you want her to smile then act on it, take initiative,stop being so damn lazy!

2.)Yes women love to cuddle,but that's not all they like to do. I know for me and the relationship I am in now, I need sexual contact, it brings confidence in the relationship which in effect makes a girl smile.There is nothing like a connection in the bedroom,even if it is a one night stand make the girl leave happy.I call it sexual karma. Listen to your lady by her movements,her voice and her touch,she shouldn't have to tell you to put your arm right there or move like that, it is so annoying when you are off beat so get it together and do it right.

3.) Okay so this one can get difficult, make jokes, joke about 80 percent of the issues you may have in your relationship, jealous exes, money, tired of work. make a joke about it but if you joke too much she may think you just don't care so be sure to point out its important but then joke about it, I know....Women are confusing so it takes mad skill to read a lady, but really if you have a good woman then she wont care about every issue anyways and she will laugh with you.

4.) Cook and clean!!! You shouldn't have to do it everyday but it sure is nice when my man cooks me a meal and does laundry for me. Sometimes I have to say STOP! But a majority of men  have a problem helping out your lady. Men and women both work so they should both cook and clean ,its only fair. the one problem, if you cannot cook and your food just does not taste good, maybe you should just clean more and leave the cooking to your lady.......

5.) What woman does not like romance? Work all day, clean all night, but then he lights a candle, starts a bath and sits with you while you unwind.....If this does not make you lady happy then nothing will.I absolutely need romance in my relationship.I couldn't imagine being with someone that came home from work and farted and looked at you and said "wheres my dinner"? What kind of man doesn't take joy in making your lady smile with sweetness he can create with a little magic?

6.)I have seen the worst of relationships throughout my life.relationships that have nothing left but hate and torture,but if you take your lady out for a fun night and those drinks keep coming, and your dancing on the dance floor and holding each other and kissing, the greatness comes back for that moment.The feelings that you felt when you first meant and happiness will bloom.For me I really love the company of my man so date night is what makes me realize how lucky I am and I smile everyday!

7.)I need a MAN, not a boy, or a sissy. I love having a mans man , and your lady will love having one too.Even though women are strong and smart, we still need someone there to protect us. I mean keep up with your hygiene but show your women your strengths.make her feel safe, emotionally, financially, and spiritually.

8.)Another thing that makes me happy is family. Family is very important and I think once you are in a relationship my family is your family and vice versa.  Too many people have problems with in-laws. Stress can take a toll on you when you argue with your loves mom,how do you think she feels when you don't even take the time out to embrace a relationship with her family, if you want your girl to smile make sure you smile with her family and friends.

9.)Always encourage your lady, shes your boo and you need to make sure she makes the best out of her self.Sometimes as a woman I feel like less,maybe because I work with dudes but when my man tells me im great and to work hard, I get a new drive in me and go hard.I might not smile right away but when I accomplish my goals I will smile ear to ear.

10.) The most important thing you as a man can do to make your girl smile so big that maybe you can seek something in there.:) So simple but sometimes so hard to say. is the powerful words....."I love you". To sit and look in each other's eyes and say I love you will not only make her happy but truly make you content that you above all others have made your lady smile.

I really am smiling everyday, because I have found a man that does all of these things so I know they work and this article is not a theory but a fact. Like I said before if these does not work, you should stop trying on the certain lady and move on to the next. A good woman will appreciate you for you and trust you no matter what. She will respect you as a man and want to laugh and smile with you. Good luck on making your relationship better, or keeping your great relationship great!!

Comments

brick 17 months ago

i love my girl i do and ill do anything to make her happy ya tips r ok but i need more insite i all ready do those things need so extra tips we are happy just want to do sumthing differnt

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floating mind Level 2 Commenter 8 months ago

Thanks for this insightful hub.

Eddie chiwala 46 hours ago

You are making me move to the next level am loving everythng here

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